How to Write a Eulogy: A Simple, Heartfelt Guide

Being asked to give a eulogy is an honour, and it can feel daunting. This gentle guide on how to write a eulogy will help you say something warm and true, without the pressure of getting every word perfect.

Start by gathering memories

Jot down moments, stories and qualities that capture who they were. Ask family and friends too — you’ll be surprised what surfaces. An online memorial is a lovely place to collect these as they come.

A simple structure

• A warm opening — who they were to you and to everyone gathered.
• Their story — a few defining moments, not a full timeline.
• What they loved and what they gave to others.
• A story or two that make people smile.
• A gentle closing — a thank you, a farewell, a line they lived by.

Keep it real

A eulogy doesn’t need to be poetic. Speak as you normally would, include a little humour if it fits them, and don’t worry about emotion — it shows how much they meant.

Practise, and keep it short

Three to five minutes is plenty. Read it aloud a few times, and keep a printed copy in large text. If your voice wavers, pause — everyone understands.

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